"I have an Indian friend ..."
Reading the comment made by Potira , I realized I should write about it. Ok many will criticize or even more arguing, but I believe I share the experiences obtained here, of course, the bias will exist, is not a scientific report.
Many will say: "Ah, but in Europe there is also" I do not live there, I will speak what I know, what I saw.
Disappointments happen, but disappointed to be without money, in a country totally different and without understanding the languages / local dialects ... Seriously, no one deserves.
Come:
- I speak English fluently and understand the language even with a strong accent;
- I or my family have financial resources to afford me no problems in India;
- Ever wanted to know a different culture, will be three weeks of pure adventure, (I do not agree, but I'm me ...);
- Work / study abroad will be very cool, I'll do some interviews there, knowing the lindão and hopefully I'll be back;
Do not come:
- The google translator will be best man at my wedding;
- Not going to buy a return ticket is very expensive and will not be accurate because we love each other!;
- I have a weak stomach, my joy is to have a clean bathroom to use;
- I do not know the usefulness of the passport, nor what the currency of India ... In fact I have never traveled outside the state;
Falling in love with an Indian ... The relationship usually begins on the Internet, everyone knows that everyone on the Internet increases, glosses, and hides - Fact. So do not believe everything.
- All Indians are rich - Only in the novel, saying that if he is rich, or to imply that it is a lie.
- "I do not have cam, but I really want to see you" - your friend is probably with four friends wanting to see you too.
- "Oh little body shows that there will ..." - This tip applies to any woman of any country, does not show, or at least wait to show it before ... Who can guarantee that Don Juan is not writing to show to friends?!
- "I am the master of love, the Kama Sutra was done here, you know" - According to reports, people here start to life "adult" after the University, often only after marriage.
- "Come to India, let's get married!" - Not likely, most marriages are still arranged. As much as you love your friend, marriage here is a family business, few are against it.
Ps.: Many of the Indians who have virtual relationships are already married, unhappy, but will not divorce.
- "I am Brazilian, I do not speak English, but translation programs speak for me" - you three options:
- Learn English and open your heart to love international;
- Limit yourself to the virtual relationship, do not come here without at least speaking English;
- Find a love you can talk without a computer side.
- "I can not go to Brazil, come to India, stay at my family" - 99% chance of being an outright lie, an Indian foreign hardly bring a friend to stay under the same roof as his mother.
- "I do not live with my parents, but you can not stay in my house" - The Indian youth, when working or studying away from the family usually live in boarding houses - never saw mixed pension. Most Indians still live at home until after he got married.
- "I can not go to Brazil, here in India you get a job easy easy" - Part fact, here companies need people who speak Portuguese with translation to work in various fields. Here's the trick: if you come on a tourist visa and get a job you MUST RETURN TO BRAZIL to apply for a work visa, can not change visa category in India, much as his friend says there is no problem working with the wrong because if they catch you illegally, you will be extradited to Brazil, but not before passing through a beautiful humiliation. Oh forget to ask for another visa will be denied.
- "Come to India, I care for you here" - Really?
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Comments
Every time I read about a Brazilian who was venturing into India, the angrier I macho Brazilian culture. It does not happen if Brazilian men were not so "demanding" and were only in search of the perfect woman. Our culture ends with self-esteem of women in general. That's why, in an act of desperation, they venture into the world. (Do not be offended Chico - does not apply to all Brazilians)
Violence against women does not happen only in India. The Brazil is among the first in the category "violence against women."
Funny that the Indians here in America are so quiet and workers, are an image of the perfect man. Must be why the laws here are rigid and taken seriously ...
A hug and be with God!
PS> I love reading the blog of you.
I think that in Brazil there is holy ... neither male nor female! Each seeks the impossibilities in the other! 
When I see the Indians who can go here, try to be as correct as possible to avoid the risk of being sent back! As you said ... there exists a law exists and is applied.
You live in Traverse City or North Billerica? The site has enough access to the U.S., but is the first time someone leaves a message! 
Big hug and enjoy the summer there!
Chico
I live in Dracut in the state of Massachusetts (40 minutes from Boston). North Billerica and the town of my in-laws. I'm from Ontario.
Has not really stop to comment on this post. I'm so mad to think that some women undergo such an adventure so dangerous, to go to another country without knowing the minimum of the language and culture, and on top of having met the "love of life" on the internet. How much innocence!!
Well, speaking of the Indians who live here: they have another level, are studied (doctors, engineers, pharmacists, etc ...) I'm working in a pharmacy and clinic where the majority of doctors are Indians. People are seen here as "super-intelligent."
Changing the subject:
You and Carol are very nice. I was kind of worried qdo saw that it took to post there a while ago.
A strong hug to you guys and even more.
Eliane
The organization of the change in house and get used to a "commute" 1 hour - 1 ½ hours per day were responsible ... (before it did not take more than 15 minutes for me to get to work, and Carol 5 minutes).
And life goes on! Thank you for caring Eliane!
Big hug
Personal I have to disagree with the way this discussion. The blame for what happened is the rapist, sociopathy it was what caused the abuse. Ok I agree that she put herself in a situation of risk and therefore the text of Carol's important to call attention of the unsuspecting, but we can point to blame for the fact the student! That was it, kiss and hug to Carol Chico.
Ahhhh ... But he swore he would take care of me! 
My dear to missing a lot! This "almost" in time for our annual meeting! Ja to note that counting the minutes, huh? Kisses ** 1000 **
Haaa. Qdo you guys come from?? October? To going to China October, suddenly arranged a meeting there. Bjos
hi, I'm pretending to know india is a dream of mine for a long time, if you wanted to know who lives in India, I could bake your contact because I need some tips
Great tips! I loved the site, but I have two virtual friends and I think Indians got lucky 'cause they always respected me a lot when I met them I was a little afraid,' cause they seem to be quite conservative, and India is very different from Brazil that everything is "liberal." But I never asked about their personal lives, nor are they mine, but I think we both know the socio-cultural difference that exists between the two countries, but msm so India is still one of paise encantores over there, I hope one day to meet you. * - *
will be only for qq Indian men seduce women so well in Brazil? q as a human being can be so insensinvel!
I found your blog by chance, was researching on india .. I loved your blog and would like further information about this place that fascinates me ... hugs
Hi Carol I loved your blog, social scientist and I'm good but I have an Indian friend, who is no friend but a weird thing between the two, but I do not trust anyone and he said he saw ma for my country, but not study cultures believe much and know that I have much to learn, I doubt if I even go to India, already thought if I get it and see two women full of rascals around saying that I am his third wife, man, I die; so I was wondering how I can find out the truth, since you're so far away ... thank my dear ..
hello,
I can not stop commenting qa 3 years I am involved with an Indian virtual q is in Qatar, talked by phone qdo still have some difficulty understanding his accent, but he is a great person, never lied about their culture, always made it clear qa choice of his wife is by his mother, but he may reject the q chosen, tbm never told financial advantages, it works in this period and q are together ever been unemployed, like most Indians he is an engineer. I think to go at the India knows it, but I'm very down to earth, I agree with your tips, I'll just have enough money to keep me considering contingencies, etc., guess if it were not so down to earth I would have already ventured ... . oh I do not like spicy food ... lol .... Good q is a dream I want to accomplish! I really liked your blog!
Bj
Hi guys, and td? I liked the insightful post, we really have to be careful, it's a great adventure to go to India after a love. But what is q these Indians have to leave Brazil so passionate? I am planning to go to India in January 2013 to take a course in English ILSC in Delhi. If you have someone to talk to me to venture too ... even more.
I also met an Indian, I'm almost in love with him. a detail not speak English translate what he writes. I'm saddened by what I read so much here.
Hello everybody! I really want to know India, Rose good to know that you are wanting to go there because I do not want to just have company so if you really is to stay in touch
if any and if together we do not have problems after I go to stay in Delhi.
Hi Patty, my email is rosemeire.afr @ hotmail.com ... let's keep in touch, even more!
I have many Indian friends for at least three years. I liked these in particular the friendship of Ranjith. A boy, sweet, caring, cheerful. Ranjith was that kind of prince of fairy tales. Every day had a message that cheered my day. Until one day he said he loved me, at first I did not give a shit, but every day had a message more loving than the other and that was messing with my lonely heart. After several weeks without realizing I was in love with that handsome, seductive and charming.
He began to say that I was beautiful and wanted to see me on webcam, but since I'm suspicious, I asked him to show me first, which then I show him, but he always arranged an excuse and did not appear. There were several attempts it but without success. Angry at my refusal to "prince" became a monster and said he only wanted to see me naked and I was just a sham, because I liked what I was exposing myself to stay and that he knew that all Brazilian women are equal and that they were naughty and that he would never fall for any Brazilian and he wanted to only use these whores.
I was shivering and stunned by this young man and when I tried to replicate what he wrote, he blocked me and then I delete it from my page.
Despite what happened to me I'm not angry at Indians because I know that not all people are equal, but I'm sad to know that there are people so bad and that they do not know the difference between people. Here in Brazil or anywhere in the world there are women who are exposed, but even they deserve respect.
I still have Indian friends but my eyes are more open and my heart is closed for now to love.
I know someday I'll find someone special here in Brazil or anywhere in the world.
The important thing is to stay vigilant in defending these bastards know that devalue the Brazilian woman.
He spoke and said Carol!
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(Ps My name is ... The same Potira Potirah is only for the blog ...)
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